What is the right shot? It truly depends on what you are looking to capture. The perfect picture can be defined by many different elements, but it comes down to what the customer is looking for. What I may think is the shot may not reflect what the parents wants to see or are looking for. Understanding what it is they want is very important to everyone. The worse thing that could happen is the event is over and they aren't thrilled with what you put together. Making sure you are on the same page with the client before you start will help make that day special to them and you.